„The last, best fruit that comes to perfection, even in the kindliest soul, is tenderness toward the hard; forbearance toward the unforbearing; warmth of heart toward the cold; and philanthropy toward the misanthropic.“

—  Jean Paul

Fuente: Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895), P. 105.

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novelista alemán 1763 - 1825

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—  Abraham Maslow American psychologist 1908 - 1970

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